In a shocking turn of events, Elvis Sharps, 43, and his partner Tracy Doncaster, 55, from Chandler's Ford, Hampshire, have decided to abandon their swinging lifestyle due to relentless online abuse and death threats from trolls. The couple, who had been active in the swinging community for 12 years, faced an onslaught of nasty comments, including being labeled "fat" and the cruel remark that they "look like mother and son."
The Southern Daily Echo reported that Elvis and Tracy entered the swinging scene over a decade ago, seeking to inject more excitement into their relationship and make new friends. However, what started as a consensual and private choice soon turned into a nightmare as online trolls targeted them with malicious comments and threats.
Mr. Sharps revealed, "We got a lot of abuse from the first time we did it, with people calling us fat, saying we look like mother and son. People were judging us by our looks. We met one couple about three times, but they turned against us for no reason. We stopped swinging in January 2023 because things got so bad."
The abuse took a toll on the couple's mental well-being, forcing them to distance themselves from a lifestyle they once embraced. Tracy Doncaster, expressing regret over their decision to engage in swinging, cautioned others about the darker side of the swinging scene, especially for those who are "plus size." She advised individuals to stay away, emphasizing the negative impact it had on their lives.
Elvis Sharps and Tracy Doncaster are now advocating for the closure of swinging websites and clubs, citing concerns about inadequate vetting processes. They argue that these platforms don't sufficiently verify the identity of users, creating an environment where anyone can join. Elvis further issued a warning about the presence of "strange people" within the swinging community and urged for increased scrutiny on these platforms.
As the couple shares their story, it raises questions about the need for improved online safety measures and accountability within niche communities, shedding light on the potentially dangerous consequences of online harassment.